A Sex Therapist Offers Sensual, Sexy Handjob Advice

handjob tips

Whether you’re a guy conveying to your girl what you like in a handjob, or you’re a girl trying to improve your handjob, a popular sex therapist has some winning tips.

Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and frequent contributor to Allure’s online magazine, wrote up some sexy handjob tips (here) that can help any girl take their handjob game to that next level.

So let’s dive in.

What’s great about Marin’s tips is that they aren’t conventional stuff; rather, she’s thinking outside the box. So if you’re handjob horny dude, Marin’s tips are worth forwarding over (just not to your girl’s work email). If you’re a girl, you’re man may be in for the surprise of his life if you take in some of these tips.

Here are a few sensual tips she gives to improve a handjob.

  • Use a dual grip. The dual grip is one of our top handjob techniques. As the name states, the girl uses both hands to carry out the handjob. Double your pleasure anyone?
  • Rock your wrists in opposite directions while moving your hands up and down the big hard cock. You’ll create winding motion which covers more of the hard dick.
  • Marin calls her next tip “the waterfall motion,” and it’s completely awesome. In order to achieve this handjob technique, you’ll take one hand with a loose grip and slide it down to the bottom of the hard dick. Once it arrives, you do the same with the other hand while simultaneously removing the bottom hand. Then you repeat the motion over and over, switching hands out.
  • This next one is a more complex handjob motion. Both hands begin in the middle of the hard dick. Then send both hands in opposite directions until one ends up massaging the balls and the other slides off the head and into the lower abdomen. You can lightly stroke the balls and midsection, upper thighs included. Then repeat the action.

From a general perspective, Marin recommends getting the entire body involved in a handjob. Playing with the balls creates intense build up and pleasure. You can lightly run your fingers over the balls and watch the hard dick throb with pent up cum energy.

Marin says you might try perineum play, but of course, that’s personal from guy to guy. The same goes for anal play. Most guys dig it, some guys don’t.

Lastly, Marin mentions role playing in the “master and servant” sort of way, which can breach the BDSM world.

Lubricants create amazing lotion handjobs.

Using toys is a decent idea as well.

In general, communication is a big deal. If you’re the guy, the handjob receiver, don’t be afraid to open the lines of communication with your girl. And of course, if you’re the girl, understand that communication is the core aspect of sexual pleasure. Healthy communication allows you both to experience heightened fun.

Handjobs are fun and in some ways, they have no pleasure ceiling. Meaning, the more you and your handjob partner work at them, the more ecstacy you’ll experience.