Bad Handjobs: Why It’s Mostly The Guy’s Fault

Handjobs are amazing. Of course seeing we are a handjob dating site, us feeling this way is of no big surprise.

But many guys complain about “bad handjobs.” Lets be honest, even a bad handjob is far better than no handjob at all.

But what if I told you that “bad handjobs” were more the fault of the receiver than that of the giver?

It’s true. And it can be fixed if you’re willing to fix it.

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Are Blue Balls Real? The Surprising Science You Need To Know About

Horny men will often cite blue balls as a condition that makes them incredibly uncomfortable after hours of foreplay, offering no ejaculation. For a lot of women, this feels more like a desperate play for a handjob. But the truth in the matter is a mixed bag.

Are Blue Balls Real?

In short, yes, blue balls are real. They are an authentic medical condition. That said, the “blue balls excuse” is often an overdramatized and illegitimate strategy to lay guilt on a girl who doesn’t want to partake in any sexual act that leads to the man ejaculating.

This is why we call it a mixed bag.

About Blue Balls

Medically, blue balls are an informal name given to epididymal hypertension (EH). The condition is hardly life-threatening, however, men with the condition can experience varying degrees of discomfort.

The condition is only relieved when a man has an orgasm. Go figure.

Symptoms of EH, or blue balls, include heavy feeling balls, pain in balls, and general ball aches. None of that sounds good, at least not if you have balls. Oh, and sometimes the balls take on a blue hue, hence the name (hey, you knew that had to be in this somewhere).

So what causes blue balls?

When a man is aroused for an extended period of time, he might develop blue balls.

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An erection causes more blood flow not only in the penis but in the balls. When a man orgasms, the blood subsides back to normal levels. These extended abnormal periods of increased blood can, at times, cause the balls to experience trauma. 

Another way to come down with a case of blue balls is to partake in extended orgasm play. But most often, it’s the result of making out with a hot girl and getting no orgasm relief. 

Hence, this is why guys use blue balls as an argument for why a girl should “help him out,” most often by way of a handjob

But here’s the “rub,” pun intended. 

Blue balls are relatively rare, and even rarer are severe cases of blue balls. The lore of blue balls is facilitated by horny bros looking to sucker a girl into a blowjob or handjob. 

In a recent episode of Netflix’s Too Hot To Handle, one of the contestants attempts to leverage the argument of blue balls for the sake of getting a handjob. The Netflix Too Hot To Handle handjob scene made for intense debates. His efforts failed, but Internet warriors were quick to drop the hammer on the contestant’s effort. 

So yeah, blue balls are real, but in most use cases, they are a fraud. Does that make sense?

Blue balls have come under scrutiny in recent years as toxic male behavior. This is because the condition’s cause is most often associated with a “prude girl” who want “help a guy out.”

Again, blue balls is a mixed bag. Blue balls are real, but mostly the cited cases are an unsavory attempt at some sort of sexual pleasure by the guy.

Netflix’s Too Hot To Handle Features Desperate Handjob Play

Imagine being rewarded for giving up all sex, including masturbation, with the caveat that you reside on an island with super hot singles. That’s the premise of the sexy/sexless Netflix series, Too Hot To Handle. Contestants get docked points whenever they get off, whether it be with another hot contestant or while showering alone.

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Why The Behind The Back ‘Snuggle Handjob’ May Be Your Jam

We call it the ‘snuggle handjob.’

Maybe you know it as a position that places the girl behind the man’s back while she gives him a handjob.

All the same, some people view this handjob as quite sensual while others may not realize it has many other sexy benefits. The snuggle, behind-the-back handjob is one of our top handjob techniques.

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Handjob Porn: The Argument For and Against Watching It With Your Girl

We enjoy porn. Yes, you also enjoy porn, whether or not you admit to it. Handjob porn is a big, big deal. Because so many people search for handjob porn, we are able to understand why handjobs are so damn popular now.

In fact, our handjob porn compliation is a pretty popular destination for singles looking to learn more about (or get turned on by) handjobs.

But is handjob porn healthy?

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A Sex Therapist Offers Sensual, Sexy Handjob Advice

Whether you’re a guy conveying to your girl what you like in a handjob, or you’re a girl trying to improve your handjob, a popular sex therapist has some winning tips.

Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and frequent contributor to Allure’s online magazine, wrote up some sexy handjob tips (here) that can help any girl take their handjob game to that next level.

So let’s dive in.

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How To Know When To Change Speeds During a Handjob

The jerk speed of a handjob is everything. If your too slow, he may never cum. If you’re too fast, it may be over in a flash. If you shift speeds at the wrong time, he may orgasm without as much impact.

If you’re a man that’s girl just isn’t in tune with your handjobs, send them this article. If you’re a girl that feels like she needs a little help with her handjob game, you’ve come to the right place.

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Handjobs In Famous TV Shows and Movies (Ranked By Hotness)

Handjobs in TV shows and movies is a growing trend. Yeah, “growing,” I went there. But aside from my obvious, distasteful pun insertions (again), handjob popularity is on the rise. That’s obvious when you consider TV show handjobs.

When TV shows and popular movies feature handjobs, you know that handjobs are becoming more and more mainstream.

And there’s a lot of awesome mainstream TV show handjob content out there. We expect more of this as minds change.

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