Why The Behind The Back ‘Snuggle Handjob’ May Be Your Jam

snuggle handjob

We call it the ‘snuggle handjob.’

Maybe you know it as a position that places the girl behind the man’s back while she gives him a handjob.

All the same, some people view this handjob as quite sensual while others may not realize it has many other sexy benefits. The snuggle, behind-the-back handjob is one of our top handjob techniques.

What Is a Behind The Back, Snuggle Handjob?

This is when the girl sits behind the man, her breast to his back, and gives him a handjob. This can be accomplished from the standing position as well, particularly in a shower. In this position, the girl gives her man a handjob without making face-to-face contact.

No Eye Contact

I begin with one of the most unusual benefits of the snuggle, behind-the-back handjob.

There’s no eye contact.

So allow me to explain.

For starters, social anxiety is real. There are many people, maybe even you, who don’t do eye contact all that well. That’s totally OK, we are sure you’re working on it, but no rush.

In sex, the same eye contact anxiety exists for some people. Sex is such an intimate act with all the moaning and contorted facial expressions and unexpected lewd talk. This can make some people uneasy looking directly into their partner’s eyes.

This phenomenon is often more true with handjobs. Because the handjob really frees up eye-to-eye contact.

When you are in the behind the back snuggle handjob position, there is no more eye contact. This can sometimes result in a girl more confidently stroking a hard dick. This is because all the pressure eye contact makes is gone.

But wait, there’s more.

Because eye contact is gone, a certain enigmatic element sets in. When you, the guy, can’t see her eyes, you fall into an orgasmic, erotic trance of sorts. Because you can’t see what she’s thinking and that makes the handjob even more of a rush.

More Sensual Hands

When she’s snuggled behind you, she has more access to your full body with her second, non-handjob hand. I mean, that is, if she’s not double-gripped.

This means she can lightly rub your belly, a highly sensual spot that can increase the overall stimulation of the ongoing handjob. She can also rub and graze your neck, thighs, and even your face.

She might use lotion, she might not. All options are on the table because both of your positions are comfortable.

Her Breathing

When she’s right behind you, her breath constantly streams down your neck. Depending on her position, whether intentional or non-intentional, her breathing may go into your ears, which makes for a super erotic experience.

What Not To Do During a Snuggle, Behind The Back Handjob

There are really only a couple of bad moves you can make during this sensual experience.

  1. Don’t lean your body back and press weight on her. This will strain her back. Make sure you are upright and self-supported, not using her as a reclining chair.
  2. No matter how intense the handjob gets, don’t fling your head back. You don’t want to inadvertently hit her face.

The snuggle handjob is one of life’s great pleasures. It also has a lot of powerful benefits, including removing sometimes awkward eye contact.