How To Score Your First Date Handjob Fantasy

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Many people are surprised by how many of us carry a first date handjob fantasy. People tend to stigmatize the handjob as a “first base” sort of sexual event. But the fact is, many of us fantasize about handjobs. That’s why our handjob dating site continues to grow. Our members seek out handjobs.

The first date handjob fantasy is it’s own class of eroticism. We aren’t sure what makes the first date handjob so amazing, but some speculate that it takes us back to a time of being young and getting that first rub. I’m not sold on that at all. I believe the handjob gives precise erotic control.

When we break things down, the handjob offers convenience, safety, and erotic control. Also, it allows the girl to watch you explode with cum. Believe it or not, lots of girls feel empowered when their handjob pops your top.

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But given that many girls feel guys look down upon the handjob, they’ve become harder to get. Girls feel they have two choices: The blowjob, or sex. This can lead to an all or nothing roll of the dice. The handjob is a nice middle ground that I think feels better than both. Again, this is why we have so many handjob dating lovers online right now.

So then, the question remains, what’s the best way to score a handjob in the modern world?

Let’s get to it.

Know Your Handjob Fantasy

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Don’t just message every girl on our site requesting a handjob. That ruins it for them. Remember, the girls on our site fantasize about giving handjobs as well. You ruin the fantasy when you treat ithe handjob like a mindless purchase at Walmart.

Girls need the mind involved. They love the idea of role playing. We find that the car handjob date is one of the most popular fantasies. Maybe because it’s a throwback to when your parents were inside waiting for you get home from your date. All the same, by presenting a fantasy to her, you are both able to begin communicating what you each like. Maybe she enjoys masturbating while stroking you, or possibly she wants you to fingerbang her during the act.

It is also entirely possible that she just wants to jerk you off and go home to her own dildos.

When you present a fantasy, you open up conversations about what each of you want and desire.

The best approach is to begin with a notepad. Decide on a few handjob dating fantasies. To get you started, here’s a few popular ones:

Popular Handjob Date Fantasies

1) Car handjob (think parking lots, drive-up movies, etc.)

2) The Netflix and Chill handjob: This is where you are watching a movie together and she jerks you off.

3) The Asian massage: Again, super popular. In this one, she plays the masseuse that rubs you down. Most of the time, you want it to feel like it “should” be a regular massage. But the happy ending happens.

4) On the knees: This is the POV one where she falls to her knees and jerks you off on her tits or possible her face.

5) The shower handjob: She typically stands behind you in the shower and jerks you off.

Again, it all comes down to what you like. I could list Handjob fantasies for the next week.

Understand What You Like

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Many girls read our popular handjob tips guide. They do so because they want to learn all the nuances that go into giving a potent handjob. If you are a member of Free Handjob Hookup, you should understand what it is that you like in a handjob.

Because, you’re sure to get asked.

You don’t want to force only what you like, that will turn her off. But in order to get matched with your handjob date, you’ll need to figure out some preferrences.

1) Do you like dry or oil handjobs?

2) Do you want to kiss during the handjob?

3) Do you like a low or high grip?

4) Do you prefer a fast tug or a slow cook?

5) Do you enjoy a traditional or reverse grip?

6) Where do you prefer to cum?

Be Polite

You don’t want to burn your rep on Free Handjob Hookup. One of the things girls enjoy most about handjobs is that they can talk to you. Yeah, that sounds odd, but I love it also. There is nothing better than talking about life while she’s giving you a hot, erotic handjob.

The last thing you want to do is treat her as if she’s just there to please you (unless that’s her fantasy).

Be polite. When she arrives, treat her like a date. She is a date. Offer her a drink. Make sure you thank her for the handjob.

In the end, understand what you want, outline your fantasies, and allow Free Handjob Hookup to do the rest.

Happy Handjobs, folks!

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