Friends With Benefits Handjob (Here’s How To Get One)

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She’s your good friend. But she’s also hot. Or maybe she’s not traditionally hot, but there is something about her personality that makes you want to pull your dick out around her. The friends with benefits handjob is one of the more popular handjob types. And the truth is, you have more of a chance at a friends with benefits handjob than you think.

Let’s deeper explore this matter, shall we?

Ten years ago, I received the best handjob of my life. The handjob technique wasn’t top-grade stuff, instead, it was the fact that it was a friends with benefits handjob. The girl who gave me the handjob was a friend and we’d never done anything sexual prior to this amazing moment.

Her name was Sarah. We’d known one another for nearly 20 years. I’d never seen her tits. We’d never drunkenly made out. But at age 30, we were both in our sexual primes. We talked more about sex than ever.

She’d disclose the erotic details of one night stands, or sexual encounters with guys she hooked up with. I’d always end up jerking off to her later that night. I almost felt shame over it, but it’s difficult to argue that such a happening is not a natural consequence. Sarah was cute and lively.

I thought I’d create my friends with benefits handjob guide based on my experiences with Sarah and a few girls to follow. I hope this helps.

Friends With Benefits Handjob 101

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To begin, a friends with benefits handjob only happen when you and the girl have some sexual repoire. If you can’t call this girl up and discuss a blowjob you received from another girl, you might be too far off course for the end game handjob.

To course correct, you need to start peppering conversations with sexual flavor. If she responds by sharing her sexual experiences with you, you have a chance.

With Sarah, we always talked about our sexual experiences. While it did get me off, I wasn’t sure if the same was true for her. Girls do a good job at separating friendship from more. Plus, girls fear a freindship screwed up by having sex.

I Talked About Handjobs

To get things started, I talked about handjobs. I talked about girls who’d given me handjobs in the past and what I liked or didn’t like.

To my surprise, I learned that Sarah was infatuated and sometimes mystified by handjobs. What seems like a simple, straight-forward act can be a confusing and awkward event for a girl.

Sarah told me that she always felt odd giving a handjob. She was never sure she was doing it right. She also always felt that handjobs were sending a clear message to the guy that she didn’t want to do anything more fun.

So I explained that handjobs are often the main show for a lot of guys. This allowed me to convey my infatuation with handjobs. This got the ball rolling.

The key takeaway: Sarah and I talked about sex. I began talking about handjobs. I learned that Sarah was confused about how to properly give a handjob or if the guy even wants handjobs.

I Began Explaining Handjobs

When I told Sarah about how popular handjobs really are, she was astounded. She could not believe it.

I even told her that handjob dating is getting more and more popular on the Internet. This resulted in us looking at handjob porn videos that had millions of views and handjob dating articles.

Once you start actually looking at porn together, the dynamic in your friendship begins to shift.

Sarah admitted that giving a handjob made her feel powerful because she could control the guy’s orgasm. If the guy didn’t act a certain way, she could slow the handjob down and sort of torture him. I explained to her that this is a normal way girls view handjobs.

For a girl, the realization that a handjob can infuse them with power is typically a happy surprise.

I explained to her that many girls who gave me handjobs would watch my face and eyes for reactions. They love to see me on the brink of ultimate pleasure, then drop their hand speed to pull me back down. The mental side of a handjob can be a wild ride.

We Talked Handjob Technique

Sarah remained awkward in terms of her handjob technique. She said she wasn’t sure if she gave a good handjob. This is what opening up the conversation valve produces, real thoughts conveyed. She, like most girls, knows that making a guy cum isn’t always that hard and nor does it mean the handjob was amazing.

At this point, I realized that Sarah wanted to give an amazing handjob.

We Got Stoned

I’m not one to condone drinking or smoking pot as a way to increase intimate conversations, but sometimes, well, it’s helpful. Sarah and I aren’t much for drinking, so pot was the device of choice.

I have some funny history about pot with Sarah. Many of our sexual conversations occurred while stoned. And smoking pot makes me super horny. I used to consider myself an anomaly in this way, but it turns out, there is a lot of science relating marijuana and sex. In fact, there are many benefits to smoking marijuana and having sex.

So often, as soon as Sarah left my place, I’d turn to a bottle of lotion and jerk myself off while high.

The pot not only elevated my sexual desire, but it opened Sarah and I’s sexy talk valve.

I began to shift the conversation away from our own general sexual endeavors to more personal stuff. For example, when we talked about best handjob practices, I’d use my dick as the example (without showing it).

The next stage was actually showing Sarah my hard dick. We were very stoned. I asked her if she wanted me to show her what I was talking about. It was odd, Sarah’s eyes were huge when my dick came out and it was that hard. Nothing else happened that night. I showed her where to use her fingers on a dick and then put it away.

But for Sarah, she was shocked that my dick was that hard. The next time we smoked out, she encouraged and prompted the sexy talk. This time, while I was showing her my hard dick, she hinted that she was confused.

So I suggested that she use her hand on my dick.

And that’s how my frist friends with benefits handjob went down.

For years, this relationship continued. I never fucked her. She never gave me a blowjob. She’d simply give me handjobs while we were both stoned. I made it clear that I wasn’t going to fall for her in that way. This is why it lasted so long. She wanted to be friends, not lovers. She didn’t want kissing. But she enjoyed the power that her handjobs held over me.

After only a few months, Sarah gave the most outrageously amazing handjobs. She told me that some of the guys she hooked up with had never experienced anything like them.