The Handjob vs. The Blowjob: How The Handjob Often Wins

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There’s a sexual hierarchy that’s undeniable. In our younger days, we likened baseball “bases” to sexual success stories. The more “bases,” the more fulfillment. A homerun was sex. Kissing was first base. A handjob? We aren’t sure, but I’d surmise it to be second base.

Whatever the bases determine, the blowjob has long been considered a more intense, sexually fulfilling act than the handjob. In some circles, the handjob is merely a way for a girl to give you something, without GIVING YOU SOMETHING.

But things aren’t always what they seem. Handjob dating is growing in popularity. Many guys and girls are appreciating the erotic act of the handjob more and more. The handjob, I should say, is rising from its previous place of sexual scrutiny into a full-fledged exciting and intense sex act.

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You Can Make Out With Her The Whole Time

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If you love kissing while you experience pleasure or even while you cum, the handjob serves you well.

When your girl’s mouth isn’t sucking your dick, she can stroke your dick while making out with you, which stacks on layers of erotic pleasure. The more you do this, the more your girl will improve her handjob while flying blind. In other words, since she is kissing you, she isn’t watching her hand. She’s feeling out the handjob and learning your dick.

Kissing is an erotic pleasure. One of my favorite challenges is to continue kissing while I cum from my girl’s handjob. It’s not easy, but damn fun giving it a go.

She Gets To Watch You Fully Cum

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Most guys enjoy a girl watching us cum. That’s why masturbating in front of a girl is so much fun. When you begin to cum at your pleasure apex and she’s stunned by how much you offload, it makes the orgasm that much more intense.

The handjob allows her to watch you cum while she’s stimulating you. With a blowjob, most of the time, your cum shoots into her mouth. That’s lovely. I mean, that’s amazing. But its often understated how much fun it can be when a girl’s hand gets slathered by dense cum.

Also, while you cum, she has complete control with the handjob, unlike the blowjob. Cumming to a blowjob is super intense and usually, the explosive orgasm is a steamroll. But a girl who knows how to give a sensual handjob can extend your orgasm fun in a Kamasutra way.

All while playing witness to a white lava explosion.

Handjobs Offer More Precision Over Blowjobs

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A blowjob utilizes lips, tongue, sometimes teeth and tonsils, to pleasure a big dick. The tongue leverages a tremendous amount of control. But there is no greater control over sensual hotspots than by way of the glorious handjob.

Your girl’s fingers can precisely locate your dick’s sensual hotspots and pleasure them at an exact pace. She might slide her fingers gently or rough, and at a slower or faster pace.

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During the handjob, your dick becomes treasured machinery and your girl’s hands serve to worship it.

She can let her fingers glide across your balls until she’s using her palm to caress the base of your big dick.

Unlike the blowjob where many girls can’t deep throat, the handjob is a no-limits pleasure session.

If you develop a relationship with the same Handjob Hookup member for the long term, she will get to know your big dick’s pleasure points like the back of her own hand (pun intended).

Your hands are simply more potent than your mouth. It’s as simple as that.

You Can Deploy Erotic Talk To One Another During Handjobs

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When she’s giving you a blowjob, she can’t talk. When she’s giving you a handjob, she can tell you how godly your dick is, how perfectly shaped it is, and how she loves to look into your eyes as she runs her fingers up and down it.

You can tell her how much you worship her and where you really love to be touched. She may not know that you enjoy her fingernails sliding over your balls. She will now. Because you’ll convey that to her as your big mushroom head fills with a load of cum that’s about to blow all over her hand, wrist, and t-shirt.

We should never underestimate how powerful erotica talk can be during a sexual act.

Think about it. How often have you gotten hard just thinking about asking a girl for a handjob or blowjob? The simple fantasy of asking for sexual pleasure is erotic. It gets your dick hard.

Now imagine that happening while she’s giving you a handjob.

Now, it’s not always a given that a girl will be down for erotic talk during a handjob. Make sure you read member bios. Also, sometimes, girls open up more the more comfortable you become with them. This is sometimes what distinguishes between long-term handjob partners and strange handjobs.

Conclusion

A great handjob is easier for many girls to achieve than a good blowjob. Most girls don’t love giving a blowjob, so you’ll end up getting them less frequently. Girls like the handjob because it’s casual and gets their man pleasured equally.

Girls that give handjobs are more precise in how they pleasure a big dick than girls who give blowjobs.

This isn’t to understate the impact of a great blowjob. I personally love blowjobs. In some cases, the handjob blowjob hybrid is a perfect sexual experience.