How Do I Get My Hot Friend To Give Me a Handjob?

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Want Your Friend To Give You A Handjob But Don’t Know How To Ask Her? We’ve Got You Covered.

She just a friend. You pal around with her to the mall and even catch the occasional movie with her.

She confides in you about all her bad dates or annoying stalker dudes. You give her guy advice that she appreciates and values.

Your family knows her and likes her. They occasionally ask, “hey, why aren’t you and Sarah a thing?” You fend off the question with “we are just friends.”

But you’ve thought about it before. You know what I’m talking about. When Sarah is sitting by you on the couch and your dick gets sprightly, you’ve fantasized about dropping your pants and letting her massage your dick with her hand.

You end up jerking off in the bathroom as a way to prevent yourself from crossing a line and ruining the friendship.

But friend zone handjobs happen more often than you probably know.

Here’s some things you need to understand if you want to get the “just friends” girl to give you a handjob.

Girls Enjoy Giving Handjobs

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Its time to get something straight.

Many girls love giving handjobs. For the girl, it’s a safe sex alternative that allows her to please a man without inherent STD risks. Additionally, women often love the “dominatrix” type worship they get from a guy. Men, while receiving a good handjob, often tell her over and over how amazing she is.

This is the licking the boots type experience for her. It puts them in a dominant position without having a strange guy inside of them.

Girls search handjob tips all the time, even the ones like Sarah, our hypothetical “just friends” girl.

Even blowjobs aren’t easy. That’s a lot of work for the girl and not all of them enjoy a load of cum in their mouths.

The handjob is potent, yet convenient. It’s empowering to the girl. It achieves a big result for the man who needs to cum.

So when you are assessing whether or not a girl who is just friends will give you a handjob, don’t make the mistake that all girls think handjobs are gnarly. Many love them. That’s why Free Handjob Hookup is one of the fastest-growing dating sites.

Your Delivery Will Matter

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If you just blurt out “will you give me a quick handjob” while you are both watching Netflix, things probably won’t go well for you.

Instead, the better option is to grease the wheels of conversation. What I mean is, breach the subject of handjobs from a general standpoint. Don’t go all-in right away. You’re going to need to build up to the moment.

Start by talking about the subject in an innocuous, non-threatening way. Maybe bring it up as an article you read on girls and handjobs. Or how you read that the handjob is making a big comeback.

Keep in mind, at first, she may not be receptive or she might even tell you that she thinks its weird. She’s just your friend, so her more sexual doors are probably closed off.

But as time goes on, you can plant seeds. Maybe next week talk about how you wish more girls enjoyed handjobs because you love them. She will probably say, “when I’ve given a handjob, I always felt it wasn’t enough. The guy always wants me to suck his dick, or bend over the table for him.”

This is a huge breakthrough. She’s telling you that her big turn off to handjobs is that they aren’t enough. They are simply a conduit to a lot of other sexual acts she either doesn’t want to do, or doesn’t have the energy to perform.

This is you removing an obstacle. She will now understand that for you, a handjob is exactly enough.

Many girls who join our handjob dating site do so because they enjoy the handjob experience, but don’t want some annoying bro nudging their head down.

The point in all of this is that the handjob conversation can’t be abrupt. Your deliver needs to play out over weeks, not minutes. I know that feels like a long time, but you’ve been friends for how long and she still has never jerked you off? You can wait a few weeks.

The Booze or Pot Can Help

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Booze helps grease the grooves of handjob conversations. If you’ve planted seeds for a week, the first drunk convo you have will be an easy one to insert some handjob talk into. And because you are both drunk, the conversation can be more erotic.

You can ask her how she gives handjobs. She might even admit to enjoying them.

Once she admits she enjoys giving handjobs, the door for you to admit you fantasize about handjobs with her begins to open.

Don’t rush through the door, instead, gently open it.

Here’s the thing with marijuana and handjobs. They are freaking spectacular. The best handjobs of my life have been while stoned. Handjobs and marijuana go together in an amazing fashion.

Marijuana increases the sexual stimulation experience.

Now, the downside to marijuana is that a lot of times, it’s a less social experience making it more difficult to breach subjects. However, if the drunk conversations have already been had, it’s easy to bring it up while high.

Explain That You Are NSA and Enjoy Teaching Handjobs

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We get a ton of feedback from new handjob dating members.

For women, we often hear that they are a bit insecure over their handjob play. They feel that they don’t do it well.

You’d be surprised by how many girls look online for handjob tutorials.

As you are greasing the groove of handjob conversations, make sure you explain how you are a great handjob teacher. And at the same time, slyly convey that you are in the no strings attached mindset.

This will make her see you as a perfect handjob teacher. She trust you. You don’t want to date her. She understands you won’t bro-brag about the experience. She knows you will tell her when something feels great and something feels not so great.

But be good to your word. When she finally does give you a handjob, don’t suddenly turn things into dating mode. You’ll ruin all your future chances as a friendzone handjob.

Friend zone handjobs are one of life’s greatest experiences. But they don’t come easy. You’ll need to be methodical and put in some work. Patience is your friend when it comes to the friend tug.