How To Give The Handjob He’ll Remember Forever

When it comes to giving a mindblowing handjob, you can know all the handjob tips by heart and still fail. Because most handjob techniques leave out atmosphere.

The mental side of the handjob fuels the eruption, make no mistake about it. But handjob atmosphere oftens gets lost in a girl’s focus on how she touches his balls and genitals.

Here’s how to give him the handjob he remembers forever.

The Handjob Text

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Sexting is hot. It can also be risky, but the payoff can be huge. Sending a direct, instructional handjob text can result in an absolute explosive orgasm.

If your man is simply upstairs, text him that you want him to come down for a handjob. Demand that he walk down completely naked. Believe me, this will get him worked up like you won’t believe. Now, some guys may get the nerves going and not “show” their excitement as much, but not to worry, it’s gonna go well.

If your man doesn’t live with you, then text him to “come over, there is a handjob waiting.”

Now, the key to all of this is to essentially stop responding. If you’ve rarely or never sexted, he may start asking questions.

“Is this real?”

“Is your phone hacked?”

“So wait, you are telling me I’m getting a handjob?”

Don’t open it for a deep discussion. Once you’ve dropped the handjob text bomb, let him work this all out. Don’t reply immediately to questions. You can eventually reply with “are you coming? I have other things to do today.”

You can also make sure to let him know that if he fails to follow instructions, there will be no handjob.

From the time he recieves the handjob text to the time he sees you without his pants, he’ll experience the most excitement of his life.

The Couch Handjob

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There he is, standing in the living room adjusting a picture frame on the wall. Or maybe he’s sitting on his laptop. You walk into the room with a bottle of lotion and gaze at him. He “thinks” he knows, but he remains unsure, possibly too scared to ask what’s happening.

You’re about to give him a lotion handjob, and a CFNM handjob, all wrapped into one.

Remember, you’re creating atmosphere over technique. The technique matters, but you already know how you’ll rub him. Right now, you’re creating an atmosphere.

If he’s standing, you tell him to remove his pants. If he’s sitting, same thing. Don’t do it for him. You want to take the dominant role. If he has the TV on, leave it on. That’s your subserviant handjob play peppered into a mostly dominant experience.

What’s super hot, aside from your dominance, is that maybe the living room couch hasn’t served a beacon for sexual experiences in the past. You’re changing all that now.

Once he removes his pants, you drop to your knees and rub lotion all over his thights, balls, and dick. Work it in slowly, and gratuitously. Make it messy. When the lotion is messy, it indicates the cum explosion at the end will be even messier and you won’t care.

Now, begin talking to him. It can be about what’s going on later that day, anything irreverant in tone, or not relevant to the handjob that’s going down. This adds a casual flare into the handjob experience.

The Voyeur Handjob

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This is a bit more of an intense handjob play than others. It is not for everyone. But if you’re comfortable with a bit more experimental and less-mainstream sex play, stay with me.

The voyeur handjob allows another girl to watch you give him a handjob. Its a wild rush for him and maybe even you.

There are three ways to accomplish a voyeur handjob.

One is to find a girlfriend who is cool with things. This is the more complex way of going about it.

The second is find a willing partner on Handjob Hookup. There are lots of people who enjoy watching couples perform handjobs.

The third is to pay an escort, where it is legal, of course.

Once you lock in “who” will watch, you must make a critical decision: do you tell him or surprise him?

I can’t answer this because I don’t know your man’s inner workings. I think most guys would be thrilled with such a surprise.

Both you and your selected girl should remain clothed. And your selected girl shouldn’t dress abnormally for the occcasion. She should just serve to watch, maybe giggle a little, or talk about how her handjob with her man compares to the viewing.

Your man may want to make eye contact with her, that’s fine. But establish early on that your selected girl is merely a watcher, not a partaker. This isn’t a threesome, you don’t want him confused on that point. He’ll enjoy being nude in front of the new girl.

Conclusion

You can master all the handjob techniques you like, if you fail at creating a sexy atmosphere, your handjob isn’t all it can be. The atmosphere plays the man’s sexual mental side, which drives the rocketship to space. Create an enticing, furiously sexy environment for a handjob and you can change his and your sex lives for years.