How To Know When To Change Speeds During a Handjob

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The jerk speed of a handjob is everything. If your too slow, he may never cum. If you’re too fast, it may be over in a flash. If you shift speeds at the wrong time, he may orgasm without as much impact.

If you’re a man that’s girl just isn’t in tune with your handjobs, send them this article. If you’re a girl that feels like she needs a little help with her handjob game, you’ve come to the right place.

Why does speed impact a guy’s orgasm?

Well, a guy sort of adjust to the speed of the handjob. If you’re going fast giving a quickie handjob, he builds to orgasm. If you slow your hand speed right before he cums, his orgasm may throttle some, and not in the good way. He may cum, but without the full impact.

If you go too slow, he may never get there.

But changing speeds can be fun. You just need to understand how hand speed effects the handjob. Slowing and speeding your hand can keep him at a pleasure high and add in some tantric flair to the handjob. It can be a femdom style handjob, or just handjob technique that builds him to orgasm nicely.

When it comes to how to give a handjob, your speed is going to matter. So let’s figure out how to fix that.

Communicate With Him

So the first tip is of course, boring. But, it’s the absolute best way. If you met the guy on handjob dating, or if this is a steady thing, you should try communicating with him. You can do this before the handjob, but also during the handjob.

If the guy is one not to give pleasure feedback during, just ask him how it feels. Once you get him talking, you can gauge which handjob speeds work for which situations.

And yes, handjob communication should be erotic in nature. That’s part of the fun!

Use His Body’s Tension as a Gauge

Right before orgasm, a guy’s thighs usually tighten up. His hips typically shift forward as if he were pushing in during sex. And of course, his dick gets harder. He may even grip your free hand or shoulder tight, or start kissing your mouth or neck.

These are the body signals of a guy on the verge of handjob orgasm. And when you know you’ve hit this place, you understand that you need to maintain or pick up speed to encourage the orgasm.

If you are trying for a tantric experience, you might pull pack some but keep a full handjob grip. This is tricky because if you slow down but he burst, you can ruin the orgasm. The trick is, if you slow down and he cums, speed back up until all the cum is released.

Watch for Pre-Cum

When you start to see the specks of joy protrude from his big hard cock, you know you’ve reached maximum capacity and a handjob orgasm is moments away.

Pre-cum is a sign that there is too much tension to hold in the cock. It’s risky to try for a tantric experience, but certainly not impossible. If you want things to release, just up your speed slightly and make sure your hand is interacting with his mushroom top.

React to Moans

Moans are the song of the incoming handjob orgasm. But they can also signal he’s simply enjoying whatever speed and grip you’ve deployed. Its his way of saying “I like this exactly.” And whatever “this” is will lead to the joyous orgasm you both want to experience.

Handjob speeds make a huge difference in the experience. Communication and reading body language is the key to understanding which handjob speeds and grips to deploy.