Is It OK To Give a Guy a Handjob on the First Date?

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Are first date handjobs OK? We break down the pros and cons of both options.

Many women write to us and ask if it is OK to give a guy a handjob on the first date.

These aren’t always women looking to sign up with our site. Sometimes, they are women who read our handjob tips guide, or some other article we’ve published over the matter. They see us as experts in the field.

To be clear, we are a handjob hookup site. We aren’t built to propel long-term relationships, although many couples go on to date long-term after meeting on our site. That’s because handjob dating gets dating started on a more honest level.

The handjob, historically, has been considered a “first date” option.

Around these parts, we despise the word “option.”

As a woman, let it be known, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. There are no expectations you need to meet.

Therefore, only you can answer the question as to whether or not first date handjobs are OK. And we are going to help you do just that.

Give a First Date Handjob ONLY If YOU ENJOY IT ALSO

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If you are wanting to give a handjob on a first date just because you think he won’t like you if you don’t, that’s not a good reason.

The handjob isn’t first base. For many women, they fantasize about giving handjobs to strange men. They enjoy his moaning and adore when he worships them as they tantalize his dick into a rock hard steeple.

Many women love to give a handjob in the car, maybe while they are being dropped off from the first date. Or at a drive-thru.

The Sonic handjob is a popular fantasy, as weird as that may sound. Drive-thru theaters simply aren’t as prominent anymore, so hey, Sonic is what we are left with.

The point is, many women love to give a handjob. If you don’t love giving handjobs or don’t have any handjob fantasies, you may be doing it for the wrong reasons.

When women sign up at Free Handjob Hookup, it is because they love the handjob. So ask yourself, do you love giving a handjob? Does the date you are with seem like the kind of guy you’d enjoy rubbing out?

If these are both NO, you shouldn’t give the handjob.

If one or both are YES, put a little lotion in your palm and make sure you read our handjob tips guide.

Are You Only In It For Fun?

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Handjobs are fun. That’s why handjob dating is one of the fastest-growing hookup sites online.

If you are looking for a long-term relationship, a first date handjob may or may not be the best option. But if you are only looking for sexy fun, the handjob can allow for some safe fun with a person you don’t know all that well.

The handjob is a great way to get a feel of a new guy in a sexual way without participating in a high-risk sex situation. It can energize a sex environment. It also allows you to both actively talk through the sexual exchange.

If you are just wanting to have a fun fling, a handjob is a great first date option to assess whether the new guy is the right summer fling for you.

If you aren’t in the market for a long-term boyfriend, the first date handjob is a sure-fire win for both of you.

Do You Believe Your Date Is a Good Guy?

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As a woman, giving a handjob can be super fun.

But eventually, you’ll want yours.

Do you believe that your date is the type of guy that will also satisfy your needs?

If you are just looking to fulfill a handjob fantasy with your date once, this question is moot. But if you are looking to date this person for any amount of time, you might want to gain an understanding into whether or not he’d go down on you, or pleasure you in a way you’d enjoy also.

Because no matter how fun the first date handjob is, eventually, you’ll want the guy to take care of your needs. If he doesn’t, you’ll grow bitter.

Do You Care What Others Think?

No one should judge you over giving a guy a handjob. Because in the end, no one should ever find out. In fact, that’s one of the biggest reasons women sign up or Free Handjob Hookup, the anonymity.

So really, it shouldn’t matter what anyone else thinks of you giving a guy a handjob.

But let’s pretend for a moment that your girlfriends do indeed find out you gave a random guy a handjob in a Target parking lot.

If you care what they think, that’s on you. If they condemn you, they aren’t your friends. If they devalue you over of the matter, they aren’t people who truly benefit you as a crew.

Now, many of your girlfriends might love the handjob game as much as you do, so you may be surprised by reactions. However, even that doesn’t matter because you need to train your brain to care nothing about what the peanut gallery thinks about anything you do in life.

I hope this helps you decide if the first date handjob is for you. I know it can be a tough decision to make given society’s prudish undertones, but just know, there are tons of women out there just like you who enjoy being worshipped by a man as they glide their fingers gently along his ball sack.