Prevent Her Handjob Boredom With These Tips

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Sometimes, girls feel bored giving a handjob. The disinterest often feels to us as if the girl doesn’t appreciate or like us. That may be true. But often, a girl’s boredom while giving a handjob is attributed to our own reactions. Yes, how we react to her handjobs can influence how she feels about the experience.

Why do we forget this?

Because many of us guys never understood this concept in the first place.

The handjob is the spice of life. We know this, it’s why handjob dating sites continue to explode in growth. But often, we fail to treat the handjob experience with the reverence and excitement the experience deserves.

Here’s how to change that.

Don’t Contain Emotion During The Handjob

She’s stroking and rubbing your hard dick. Maybe it’s a quick public handjob before a stressful business dinner. Maybe it’s a quickie handjob on the couch during a commercial break, or maybe it’s a morning handjob.

There are numerous handjob scenarios. They all offer mindblowing pleasure.

So why contain all that pleasure?

Let it go.

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Moan, squirm, tell her how freaking hot her handjob is, how amazing it feels, how you love her for giving it to you, how much you worship her. Let her know that she’s not just performing some sort of girlfriend courtesy duty, but instead, she’s providing you with an ultimate life pleasure.

She wants to know that jerking your hard dick off is worth her time. When you show little emotion, it may make her feel like she’s partaking in some sort of procedure. If you are flipping channels, your disinterest causes her to devalue the handjob’s worth. Therefore, less handjobs may come your way.

Convey how appreciative you are by letting those emotions fly throughout the handjob. Kiss her on the mouth, neck, hold her hand, just let it all go and watch how much better the handjob experience becomes.

Show Appreciation After You Cum

We all know that the guy’s mind enters an unusual realm following a hard cum session. For a few moments, we become passive about our sexual energy. We are less primed to pursue sexual interests.

But lost in this is the appreciation factor.

You don’t want to “thank her” for a service. Rather, you want to show appreciation. Talk about how mesmerized by her you are as you lay there.

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If she’s got a load of your cum on her tits and wrist, she probably wants to understand that it was worth it. If you lay there and only ask her for the remote, she may feel her efforts amounted to little in return.

As a bonus, offer to go down on her.

Stop Acting As If Her Handjob Is Owed To You

She doesn’t owe you a handjob. You’re not a king on a throne. When you act as if her handjob is due to you because your a man, she will eventually remove herself from you. She will get sick and tired of your sexist ways.

The modern woman gives a handjob because she enjoys watching you experience pleasure and because you worship her throughout the experience.

Don’t Marginalize The Handjob

The more you act as if the handjob is just a ghetto sex act performed by her to evade a blowjob or more, the less handjobs you get.

Remember, when it comes to the handjob vs blowjob debate, lots of guys are coming around to see the handjob as the winner.

Treating a handjob as a sophomoric sex act makes you seem unappreciative. No matter what sex act she’s performing on you, show appreciation. If you feel you need more than the handjob, wait to have that conversation in a polite way. But never sacrifice your appreciation for her handjob in any way.

Her handjob boredom is completely preventable. Mostly, you just need to stop acting like an entitled douchebag. Show your appreciation and don’t marginalize her efforts. Don’t constantly act as if the handjob is inferior to other sex acts. Because one day, when she’s gone and giving handjobs to a more appreciative man, you’ll wish you’d have acted better.