The Art of the Rough Handjob

In nearly every variance of sexual encounters, rough sex has its place. And that’s no different with handjobs. The rough sex handjob, while not overly popular, is sought after by many tug connoisseurs. A rough handjob can be intimidating to a lot of guys and confusing to a lot of girls.

Odds are, a rough handjob isn’t your thing. The percentages suggest most people prefer a nice oily, lotion handjob to a rough handjob. But alas, we are all unique snowflakes who prefer what we each prefer.

So let’s talk rough handjobs.

We begin with the brass-tacks.

What is a Rough Handjob?

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From a 30,000 foot view, a rough handjob is a handjob that’s peppered with discomfort. Such discomfort can be limited to a dry rub that brushes the dick’s skin, or it could be a more intentional and strategic play.

We probably have all had that impromptu car handjob from the girl who is just trying to make you cum fast. There is no lotion, your dick is dry, her hand drier, and she’s jerking at the speed of light. Sure, it feels good, but you also notice the more course effect. It’s a rougher handjob.

That’s the base explanation of a rough handjob.

A rough handjob is often a bit less intentional. Maybe her hand is dry. Maybe she’s jerking so intensely that her hand is brushing the skin more. This can leave irritation on the top of your dick.

For many guys, this is just par for the course with a quickie handjob. With no lotion available and a lack of time, it’s just expected that the handjob will be a bit unintentionally rough.

But here’s the rub (pun clearly intended).

Some guys enjoy the rough aspect of the handjob. And this can lead to a more exploratory sexual deviance.

And some girls enjoy the idea of seeing a guy squirm during a more aggressive handjob.

When these two partners meet, the rough handjob might become more coordinated, more consensual, and much more erotic.

The rough handjob is erotic because it blends pain and pleasure. In the end, the right amount of pain and pleasure must be achieved for a truly explosive handjob orgasm to occur. And balance isn’t always easy to achieve.

A Traditional Rough Handjob

A more traditional rough handjob plays out when both guys and girls accept that they enjoy the act. The girl typically plays the role of a more dominant figure, the guy is by default placed in a subservient position.

Typically, the girl uses her hand to create a more course, rougher style handjob. She may slap the dick around a little, or even deploy some humiliation tactics (though that’s more a femdom rough handjob which we cover in the next section). Some girls may use their nails.

Such a rough handjob can be a precursor to a more femdom style of handjob, but not always and not typically. Often, the girl giving the rough handjob enjoys watching the guy struggle to balance the discomfort with extreme pleasure.

The Rough Femdom Handjob

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When things get more formalized, we call it a femdom handjob. This is when the girl giving the handjob deploys BDSM practices. In other words, a femdom handjob goes far beyond just a non-lubed up handjob quickie.

There are a lot of variances to a femdom handjob.

  • Slapping, hitting, dick
  • Tying string around dick
  • Tying string around balls
  • Deploying pain against balls
  • Consistently slowing up handjob enough to thwart an orgasm
  • Using rough gloves
  • Clawing with nails

The list can go on and on. But as you can see, a femdom handjob is a rough handjob with more formal applications. The girl usually takes an extremely dominant position and often humiliates the guy for his dick size or inability to remain composed during the rougher handjob.

In many cases, the guy is restrained throughout the femdom handjob.

Conclusion

Rough handjobs aren’t typically super popular with guys or girls. However, some guys and girls enjoy the delicate balance between pain and pleasure that the rough handjob offers. A femdom handjob is a more formal rough handjob that plays into BDSM mentality.