The Wife Handjob: Why We Love Them & How To Get More

Ah, the elusive wife handjob. At some point in your marriage, your wife stopped giving you handjobs. You aren’t exactly sure why, but the lack of wife handjobs has somehow ignited your handjob fire. In other words, you are starting to fantasize about your wife’s handjobs but you have no outlet.

I’m here to help you solve the problem.

The wife handjob is one of the most sought after handjobs around. In fact, a lot of handjob porn plays to the submissive wife giving her hardworking man a tug.

Here at Handjob Hookup, we get lots of emails from guys living in discontent because their wives no longer jerk them off. And for many of these guys, they’ve all but given up.

Look, it doesn’t benefit us to tell any guy how to get more wife handjobs. You might not need to sign up for Handjob Hookup and find a stranger to jerk you off if your wife did the deed.

Men love the wife handjob. Let’s learn more about why that is and how to resolve the issue.

Wife Handjob – Why We Love Them

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When you first got married, the handjob might have seemed a bit like a second-fiddle sex act. You wanted blowjobs and sex. And you probably got them in the early days.

But as time went on, the sexual flames faded away. Maybe it was just pure boredom with one another. Or, kids came along. Maybe both your sex drives died down a little from poor diet.

You began cruising for porn and erotica that supported your other fetishes.

Then one day, you realized you were really into wife sex fantasies. You know, the fantasy of the traditional wife submitting to her man’s sexual needs. The man comes home from a hard day’s work to the wife waiting to give him a handjob or a blowjob.

Even though your wife works, you still developed a wife sex fantasy and desire.

Just when you thought your sexual desires for your wife had faded away, it was backing with a raging vengeance.

The problem, of course, is that years of sexual doldrums have made for an awkward situation. And now you are where you are, for lack of a better description of your current sexual status with the wife.

So that needs to change.

How To Get More Wife Handjobs

For some guys, wife handjobs are at a premium. But unfortunately, the marriage’s sexual energy soured years ago.

So where are we now?

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Understand The Wife Probably Wants To Give Handjobs

Yep, as astounding as it may seem, your wife probably wants to give you handjobs. But she probably thinks you don’t want them. She might just assume that these days, you jerk off to porn and she’s resigned herself to that marriage.

Her disinterest in your hard cock may be more about your actions than hers. She now feels awkward to reach down and start unzipping your pants. She fears rejection. But she’s most likely way more into it than you think.

Communicate Your Need

You want more wife handjobs, but you’ve never expressed this to your wife. How is that working out for you?

Look, I certainly don’t mean to marginalize how awkward such communication can be for most men. Particularly in a highly sensitive world. But the fact is, you’re going to need to learn to express sexual needs effectively if you really want to get off more.

Remember the above section’s main point: your wife probably wants to give you handjobs. She likely has no idea you want them. Because you never tell her.

My advice is to make your handjob communications erotic at the core. Let her know how exciting it is for you to cum while she watches. Explain that a large explosive load, while she’s jerking you off, is an indicator of how attracted to her you are. Don’t shy away from the erotic, instead, embrace it.

The problem with communicating sexual needs in a formal way is that it can lead to a labored sexual attempt. The more erotic your communications, the more you reestablish your old flames. That’s what’s missing. The old primal driven guy faded away, he needs to reemerge with a big hard cock.

If you need to, start erotic sexting about handjobs. That is, if the face to face is a little too awkward for you to begin.

Remember, you simply need to reestablish your sexual charge. Because right now, she thinks you aren’t interested in her.

Why We Love Wife Handjobs

There is no better girl to play a submissive role than the wife. Sure, we live in a modern world where our wives often make more money than us. That’s great. But it doesn’t mean that the wife can’t role-play a submissive handjob giver.

The wife handjob feels very dominant for the man. The submissive sexual fantasy is built right into it. This is why we love them so darn much.

Conclusion

Wife handjobs are the best. But unfortunately, many marriages become dull and then the flames fade away. The key is to reestablish your marriage is a sexually fruitful one. You want your wife to give you more handjobs. You want her to see your big hard cock. You’ll need to communicate your needs.