What Makes a Handjob Bad? Let’s Explore.

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Bad handjobs. Yep, they do happen. I know most guys would take a bad handjob over no handjob, that includes me. But bad handjobs happen even though they are completely avoidable. For the most part, a bad handjob happens when a girl doesn’t understand a few basic premises.

So if you know a girl who gives bad handjobs, send her this list. If she doesn’t dump you forever, her handjob game is gonna go through the roof.

Constant Low Grips

The low grip is listed on our main handjob techniques list. As it should be, it’s a critical part of a handjob in many cases. But the low grip is primarily used to contain the orgasm. In other words, its used to prolong the handjob experience.

When a girl uses the low grip as her primary grip, the guy may never erupt. And it can be frustrating for both parties. He wants to blow his top and her hand and wrist begin to tire down. We call that handjob fatigue.

You can use a low grip in a tantric manner, like, when he is seemingly close to cumming but you want to delay the big event. But if you use it throughout the entirety of the handjob, you might end up frustrated that he won’t cum.

The reason for this is that the top of the dick is the most sensitive spot. It’s what causes the epic climax. So if you have a low grip, you’d probably need to use your other hand to caress and stroke his dick’s head if you want him to cum.

Too Many Speed Changes

For handjobs, speed is the name of the game. A girl’s hand speed controls the tempo and brings the man through peaks and valleys.

Speed changes help build up a man’s orgasmic peaks. But they can also ruin the experience if they aren’t done correctly. If you keep dropping speed every time he starts to experience pleasure, unless you are in tantric or BDSM handjob mode, you might be taking away from the fun.

Changes of speed often happen because of handjob fatigue, whereas the wrist and hand get tired. This is why a girls should set a realistic handjob pace. If you are giving a quickie handjob, keeping the pace is better than slowing down for rest. Because every time you kill the orgasm momentum, you make it that much harder to get back to that place.

No Ball Play

Sometimes, a girl may forget the power of the balls. The best way to institute ball play into a handjob is to make that the opening act. Like stroking and massaging of the balls can get him super hard and ready for action. He may even end up on the brink of eruption if you do it right.

Light stroking can mean grazing the balls gently with fingernails or fingertips. Some guys don’t prefer hard massages, so start light and observe his reactions.

Ball play can really enhance the handjob experience. Learning how to handle the balls during a handjob ups your game vastly.

Too Much Lotion (Yep, It Can Happen)

So, lotion handjobs are some of life’s most incredible pleasures. But, did you know, a handjob can have too much lotion?

Say what?

Yep, its true.

Hear me out.

Lotion is great because it allows a lubricated experience. This speeds up the handjob and allows the hand to touch more parts of the dick in faster order. But in lubricating, the lotion must create a layer. If there is too much lotion, there is too much layer, and the added thick layer can make for a desensitized experience. Coconut oil can create a thick layer, for example.

This isn’t a big worry, have fun with the lotion. But if you are giving a lotion handjob and feel like things are taking too long, maybe wipe some off and see if that helps.

Bad Handjobs Can Be Avoided

For the most part, a guy loves even the worst handjobs. That’s the beauty of the male mind. But bad handjobs certainly do exist. Fortunately, if you follow the tips above, they are pretty easy to avoid.